because what is it really, after all of this, after everything that i've said and will say, if it's not just me looking for home?
(the early 2000's blog of a man and his across-the-world (pretty-sure-not-actual) husband... which i'm signposting the fact that it includes erotic literature and drawn, silly/endearing pornographies in various places, though those places i am not directing you to. THOU HATH BEEN WARNED. please don't get me in trouble please.)
